Friday, March 15, 2013

Is Being Gay a Choice?


I'm tired of listening to people argue about whether being gay is a genetic trait or whether it is a choice. I happen to believe that it is about as much of a "choice" as whether you are right or left handed. Sure you can CHOOSE to write with the other hand, but it will feel strange to you. As a straight man, it would feel very strange for me to have sex with another man. But I suspect the opposite is true for a gay man.

But whether it is genetics or choice, WHO CARES? If a right-hander chooses to write left-handed, WHO CARES? If a red-head colors their hair black, WHO CARES? If a man chooses to sleep with other men, WHO CARES? Why does it bother you so much? Get a life and stop worrying about controlling everyone else, and forcing your views on other people, and making people live the way you want to live. You don't have to agree with or even understand someone's choice, but you still have to recognize and support their right to choose to live their life on their own terms… just as YOU would want to be able to choose for yourself.

[This post was written after reading an article about how an Ohio senator came out in support of gay marriage after his own son came out as gay, and in particular after reading the ridiculous comments left by some readers about how disgusted they were and how this is a choice. Maybe it is. So what?]

Monday, December 17, 2012

We are NOT helpless


A common refrain heard in the aftermath of the massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary is how helpless people feel. After a natural disaster like a hurricane, at least there are material and monetary needs to which you can donate. But in this case, there doesn't seem to be anything that the average person can do to help.

Or is there?

There can be no debate that gun violence in our country is completely out of control. I've compiled a list of headlines just from the last six months or so; it is extraordinary. And it represents just the tip of the iceberg.

The answer is obvious: we need serious gun control legislation in this country. We need laws with some real teeth, real enforceability, and real penalties.

I'm not advocating for a complete ban on all guns. Admittedly, we'll never get all of the guns off the street, and I'm not going to get started in a debate about the merits of owning a handgun for personal protection. Statistics can be skewed for both sides of that argument, so I'll leave it alone.

But how could anyone think that your average citizen needs a semi- or fully-automatic assault rifle? Seriously?? Why should any man be able to dress in full body armor, and enter a Colorado movie theater with multiple assault rifles and 6000 ROUNDS of ammunition? Yeah, guns don't kill people... but they sure make it a hell of a lot easier for those who are so inclined.

So if you feel helpless, stop it. Instead, start writing letters and making phone calls. Congressmen, TV, newspapers, even the god-forsaken NRA. All of these people need to be incited to take action. And we are the ones who have to make them do it.
  

Other Ways to Not Be Helpless


  1. Be a parent to your child, not a friend. Discipline them when they need it. Teach them personal responsibility.
  2. Report a problem when you see it.
  3. Get someone help when they need it. Don't ignore "warning signs".

This list could go on for some time, but there is a common theme: take personal responsibility. When I was growing up, there was a sign hanging in my basement that I've never forgotten. I think we all could take a lesson from it:

"I wondered why somebody didn't do something. Then I realized that I am somebody."

Guns are not the problem?

Well they sure as hell aren't the answer. Here is just a sampling of news items from the past few months. Some of these were tragic accidents, others unspeakable acts of lunacy. All had one factor in common: it sure is easy to kill someone with a gun.



Dec 18, 2012
4 found dead in apparent murder-suicide in Colorado



Dec 16, 2012
2 Kansas police officers fatally shot outside market


Dec 15, 2012
Oklahoma student arrested in alleged plot to attack school
[His plan was to crowd as many students as possible into the gymnasium and then open fire]


Dec 14, 2012
Elementary school massacre: 20 children among 28 killed in Connecticut slaughter


Dec 11, 2012
3 dead in Oregon mall shooting


Dec 11, 2012
Teens ask for smoke, then kill woman when she replies, 'Get a job'


Dec 8, 2012
7-year-old fatally shot by father outside gun store in Pennsylvania


Dec 1, 2012
Kansas City Chiefs linebacker kills girlfriend, then himself


Nov 16, 2012
Movie theater shooting plot in Missouri foiled


Sep 29, 2012
Masked Conn. teen slain by dad


Aug 5, 2012
Gunman opens fire at Sikh temple in Wisconsin: 7 dead


July 20, 2012
Mass shooting at Batman screening in Colo
12 dead, 58 wounded


June 2, 2012
1 dead, 7 hurt in shooting at downtown Toronto mall


April 24, 2012
NYPD: Girl, 13, shot dead; wounded mom says shooter is her son

Monday, December 3, 2012

Windows 8 - Yes, it blows

I'm usually not an early adopter of new operating systems. After trying Windows 8, now I know why.

I've been using Windows 8 for about a month now on my home PC. I've decided that that's long enough to give it a fair shake, and now I can switch back to Windows 7 in good conscience.

There's a slight chanced I would have stuck with Windows 8, despite its many annoyances (which I will enumerate below), if it otherwise worked correctly. But I've had no end of problems with network configuration, driver setup, Windows updates, etc. It just isn't worth my time. As a 20 year veteran software developer and systems engineer, I know a turd when I see it. And if I can't figure out how to make the thing work without wasting hours of my time, how is a non-technical user supposed to get by?

But as I said, even if I wasn't having all of these technical problems, I would still prefer using Windows 7. Here are my top five reasons why, in no particular order.


#1) Metro Apps


Great idea for tablet or phone. Horrendous for a PC. When I'm working on a PC, I frequently work in multiple applications at once (be it spreadsheets, documents, image editing), and I will often position the windows so I can see two or three at once, and quickly move back and forth between them. Maybe I want to position two documents side-by-side so I can compare differences, or compare data in a spreadsheet and a financial application. Or just compare two browser windows.

Since the Metro apps are all full-screen, it takes away the most important and useful part of Windows, namely, THE WINDOWS. Hello!? Why call your operating system "Windows" if it no longer features the window concept?? Someone at Microsoft (or perhaps a whole department) should lose their jobs over this one alone.

#2) The Start Screen


The new start screen is just a bad idea. Again, it probably works well for tablets/smartphones, but on a desktop PC (especially one that isn't touchscreen) it is just plain silly. It makes switching between applications a horrendous pain in the rear. I eventually broke down and installed a third-party application that restores the missing Start menu from the desktop (which Microsoft completely removed in their finite wisdom). This in turn forced me to ask myself, why even bother using Windows 8 at all?

By the way, I don't believe a touchscreen PC would improve the situation all that much. I suspect my arms would get tired if I had to hold them up to the screen for hours on end pushing tiles around. It's one thing when the touchscreen is a tablet sitting in your lap, but when it's a monitor sitting across the desk? Using a PC shouldn't become a form of manual labor.

#3) The Hybrid User Interface


Some apps are the new Metro-style apps. Most are still "desktop" applications. Switching back and forth between the two is very clunky, especially since, as mentioned before, you can't put the metro apps into a window where you could easily use them alongside the desktop apps.

For those like me who are (unfortunately) old enough to remember early versions of Windows, it's that bad. In those days you had a mixture of the old-style MS-DOS applications, along with the newer Windows applications. Switching back and forth between them was somewhat clunky. But at least in those days you could still host most of the DOS apps in a Window alongside your desktop apps. Windows 8 doesn't give you that option. Another step backwards.

#4) Active Tiles


The "active" tiles on the Start Screen turn out to be a worthless feature.  I'm not going to sit there and stare at the Start Screen in the hopes of seeing something useful. The reality is that 99.99% of your time will be spent inside a metro app (which hides the start screen) or in a desktop app (which hides the start screen). Which means any effort given to updating that content is just wasted CPU cycles.

I listened to a YouTube video of a guy saying the active tiles were a good idea because (A) they made use of the otherwise wasted space on the desktop, and (B) they provided you with updated information, such as when you have a new email. But you can get the same notifications less obtrusively from applications that are properly implemented to use the system notification area. And you don't have to switch back to the start screen to use them. As for the "wasted desktop" notion, there are two problems: One is that it isn't a desktop. It's a gigantic full-screen implementation of the start menu. The desktop is still there and ends up being where you'll spend 99% of your time. Second is that I know lots of people who -- for better or worse -- store a shit-ton of files on their desktop, presumably for easier access. So to them, it wasn't wasted space at all. In fact it's space they'll miss now that it's cluttered with huge application blocks.

#5) Blocks


The new UI-motif is very two-dimensional and blocky. When I look at it I just can't shake the feeling that it is a huge step backwards. After the whole computing industry has spent years and years developing pretty icons and 3D screen elements, it seems strange to throw that all away in favor of icons that look like something created by a kindergartener before morning recess. The new icons don't look "clean", they look "cheap". There is a difference.

In Summary

Avoid Windows 8 for your laptop or desktop PC's at all costs. It's just a bad idea.

Welcome To My Blog

I needed a place to share all my amazing opinions that probably no one cares about, but I want to share them anyway. So this is it.

I wanted to call it "My Two Cents", but that was taken already by same lame idiot who hasn't made an entry since 2001. So I tried "My Three Cents", only to find out that everything all the way up to ten cents was already taken, at which point I gave up. (Incidentally, I considered "My 69 Cents", which was available, but thought it perhaps a bit to risque for the type of blog I am creating. I want to keep it more-or-less family friendly.)

So, I hope you enjoy reading my completely biased, often sarcastic, occasionally well-informed, and sometimes humorous take on this strange planet that we live on.